For a woman to be sexy in a man's eyes she must possess at least some of these qualities:I want to say something about why I'm still single here, but I can't even think of anything witty to say at the moment.
1. She must be able to dress classy but provocatively, regardless of her career, and she should care less about what people think...never forgets, she's a woman first.
2. She should take care of herself physically. However, that doesn't mean she has to be a specific body type or weight, it simply implies she can't dress or look lazy.
3. Sexy women walk with a slow and definite confidence...not march or, conversely, slump around.
4. She makes eye contact
5. Her perfume should be present but not over-powering.
6. She can't have a "sour puss" or get up on a soapbox and complain all the time.
7. It's best if her hair is clean and of feminine length.
8. She should be able to hold down a solid conversation and have her own opinions.
9. She should be able to take a joke...even if it's dirty.
10. She should never be on her phone, chewing gum, and laughing like a hyena caught in a bear trap.
Anyway. Talk amongst yourselves.
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Are they that bad?
2, 4, 6, 8 and 9 sound fairly reasonable to me (and they certainly apply to men too!).
3, 5 and 10 are kind of restrictive, but as one person's preferences he has a right to them. I don't share them, but I'm not going to complain that someone else does.
1 and 7 are potentially sexist, partly because of the loaded words like 'classy' & 'feminine'.
"Anonymous": Actually, I posted this because I saw it as an opportunity to make some kind of self-deprecating attempt at humor.
Pins: I can see your point. I didn't really take all that much offense to the list, but I will admit there was a little something inside that made me feel kind of small. Something about feeling like I had to conform against someone else's standard of beauty/sexiness or feeling judged, etc. and that if I didn't conform or fit within that, I was less of a woman.
Oooh. Chile, don't even get me started.
Okay, so I'm slow--I've had no time to be amused by Mags-ness and am only just glimpsing at this now. But OMG! This list SO set me off. It's not that it's *all* misogynist or outrageous, just that *enough* of it is. *One* man's *opinion* is right--just one.
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